Onarga is a small town, population 1350 in 2009, and so my plan, small-town upstate New Yorker that I am, was to just wander the cemetery looking for Mr. Janes. One look told me that wasn't going to work.
I pulled out my iPhone, found my reading glasses, and looked at the Find A Grave entry to see if there was a cemetery section listed. No luck, but there was a clue. I noticed a thin line of gravel at the top of the image. The stone had to be on the edge of one of the roads through the cemetery. I drove around carefully, getting out to check a few likely markers, but I found no match.
I made a quick trip into town to see if the library was open. It wasn't, so it was back to the cemetery for a second try. As I sat in the car, deciding how to cover the ground systematically so that I didn't miss anything, it came to me--RunKeeper, the app that I have on the third screen over on my phone for when I decide that I've had enough of the being lazy thing. I'd seen a Facebook post a while back about someone who uses the mapping feature to draw pictures and I realized that I could use it to record my path through the cemetery.
I drove the roads carefully with RunKeeper monitoring my every move. And at the end of 24 minutes, 8 seconds, I'd driven a mile, burned 137 theoretical calories, and still hadn't found the stone.
I saved the "walk" so that I could view the resulting map and it was then that I noticed that the large new section in the back seemed to be connected by a single road. It wasn't the way that I remembered it and I wondered if I'd missed a few of the sections around the perimeter of the nine-square box. I drove down the far left road and as I came up on the corner, my eye easily rested on the right stone. In that moment, I remember saying to myself with a quiet sense of reverent respect: "Mr. Janes."
This cemetery trip was a pilgrimage of sorts. Mr. Janes passed along a fiddle tune to Illinois fiddler Mel Durham who passed it on to California fiddler David Bragger, my teacher, who passed it on to me. I was there to bring Mr. Janes' tune back to him--to close the circle--and I did just that. It was an experience to treasure made possible by--of all things--the RunKeeper app.
7 comments:
You are such an interesting writer -- and creative problem solver!
Wonderful story of taking music to Mr J, too.
Catherine Green
We got it, we've tried it, I've added it to my Cemetery talk. And given you credit, of course. What a novel idea! Thanks. Play on!
What a beautiful story! And a creative way of solving the problem. I love that you played Mr. Janes' tune back to him. (Yes, I had tears in my eyes!)
Thank you for writing about this. You had me connecting with Mr. Janes and Soldiers Joy and Queen Anne's Reel with a long run of notes to his place of rest.
What a great way to find the grave. Definitely outside the box thinking for this! Love the last picture.
Thanks for all the positive comments! They mean a lot to me.
Cynthia, I remember reading this story & now we are in the writing group together! Small genealogical world! Although I'm trying to remember where I heard about the writing course...
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